Why you deserve a boudoir experience
As women when we are nervous or scared, we make excuses. Excuses not to love ourselves, and even to not take care of ourselves. Sometimes for us it can be more important to spend time with our loved ones. We also like to use excuses such as “I want to lose 20-25 pounds before I commit to a boudoir session!” or the most heard excuse, “I just don’t have the money right now!”. I wanted to write this blog to share with you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN and should do it! Give me the chance to show you that no matter the excuse you come up with, you are worthy of self love! We are all Busting with Excuses on why we can’t put ourselves first. Let me help you work though it and make magic the studio!
“I don’t have time”
It is so important to always remember that you cannot pour from an empty cup, meaning, you can’t take care of yourself physically, and mentally you’re not going to be able to care of anyone else which makes a ton of sense. It’s actually much harder said than done. I can be the worst at making sure I’m giving myself mental proper health breaks, and why I think it is important to share this with you all. I too can make the same excuses as I mentioned above and most times I need someone to look me in the eyes and tell me to slow down and give myself a break, tell me to breathe for a minute. BUSTING EXCUSES!
During a boudoir shoot you are able to stop and just breathe. You get to learn to re-love all of yourself again even if it is only for a few hours. Just think of all the time and energy you can save everyday by no longer comparing yourself to others and to no longer worry about what others think of how or what you look like. During your boudoir shoot you will get to see where your beauty comes from and this will lift such a huge weight off your shoulders.
Taking time for yourself is important, why not spend it having an amazing experience and getting pampered for once ? Check out this blog from 2019!
“I weigh to much for a boudoir session”
Fun fact, the body type of the women in advertising pictures is naturally a body type for only 5% of American females. You do not have to be a certain size to love yourself. You do not have to fit into the idea that you must have the perfect body to love your own. Don’t continue to compare your size to everyone else. No two women are the same, even twins differ at times.
It is amazing to have weight loss goals and to want to be healthy. That does not mean you have to hate your body to achieve those goals. You have to love yourself every step of the way, be proud of where you are and where you’re going. A boudoir shoot is to celebrate where you are now, and then you can have another one when you lose that 20 pounds to celebrate how far you have come! Check out this blog I wrote about being full figured and doing a boudoir shoot!
“I never feel sexy, a boudoir shoot may not be for me”
This excuse is the reason you should have a boudoir session. Often, we as women lose touch with our femininity and our sexuality. Because lets face it, life gets crazy we are more worried about health, kids, and work. It happens often and is normal.
Having a boudoir session can help you feel sexy again. It can put that spark that you thought you lost back in you . I can show you that you have in fact not lost that spark that is still inside. Your session might even ignite a lost spark between you and your spouse as well! Another thing to keep in mind is that you are not required to wear sexy lingerie if you feel this doesn’t show your personality. There are many other outfit ideas you can create to feel sexy. If you ever need ideas I will gladly set up a time to chat with you. You can also check out my blog and find outfits here.
“I don’t have the money right now”
A boudoir shoot is a luxury purchase. However it is also an investment in yourself, you are investing in your own well-being and confidence. We know money can be tight and a large investment at one time can be alot, great news; we offer payment plans!
In order to book your boudoir shoot there is a session fee. It solidifies your studio date, and make up artist. We will set up your payment arrangement for the collection you choose to purchase so that it may be easier to plan out your shoot! If you have any questions, or would like to talk about our payment arrangements shoot us an email while setting up your shoot!
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About the Author
Laura is a boudoir photographer in southern New Jersey who helps women see their true vision and beauty through her lens. She is known for her amazing feather wings, beautiful robes, and large client closet that everyone has access to when they walk into her studio.
When Laura is not taking photos, she’s a busy mom of two who loves spending time with her family and enjoys staying fit by training for her next fitness competition. Her favorite foods are tacos and chocolate cake.
Laura is known for her strong work ethic, dedication, and laser focus when it comes to achieving her goals. Her commitment to her clients is what makes her one of the best boudoir photographers in the tri state area.